As time goes I spend more and more time on social media rather than updating my blog. But then I am like “oh shit! I feel bad for my readers who are following me here for not updating in a while.
As I grow older and still having this blog I become more careful and think through what I want to publish on here more than what I did when I began. There is always a lot of things going on in my private life for example that I never talk about on here. Which I also never mention on social media such as Facebook and Twitter. I usually also never talk about my family or my hometown friends on here, which has resulted in a lot of gossip about me not having any friends haha. I do. I just don`t want them to be a part of this when they have families and their own jobs and living normal lives My Facebook I use it mostly to talk and connect with my VIP`s in my life — > like friends and family outside the industry. And my twitter is mostly for my blog work and blog associates who want to follow me. I have a very special few in the industry I work or cooperate with that I let follow me on my personal Facebook because I trust them to be professional around my family and friends. But I don`t want my personal Facebook to be known to the world either. But I do not mind if some of my readers find my personal Facebook and follow me, as long as they respect it and understand that this is where my personal life and real life contacts are, such as my mum and don`t spam it with porn. I think everyone would appreciate to have one decant place online to connect with the real people who really know you. Such as the people who grew up with me or went to school with me or are related to me.
I appreciate so much having contact with my readers and followers in some way, it depends in the way they contact me. But I have met and talked to some amazing fans all over the world for over almost 10 years now since SmackyGirl started doing model interviews. Over the years many of my readers and the fans of the models have sent me cards and presents. That makes me humble and feel honored that strangers want to spend their money and time on me. I cherish every card that is sent, every teddy bear, jewelry and all the other amazing things people have sent to me from all around the world. One of my favorite things is probably my Game of Thrones Collectible doll of Cercei Lannister that was sent to me all the way from Australia. Jay has given me 2 truck loads of gifts at least over the years. I cherish these so much more now they are priceless memories of someone that adored me so much..
I also get a lot of gifts from the industry when I am out travelling. Some of them I have given away to my readers having contests over items gifted from studios and models. But my favorite is definitely my French-Twinks top Antoine Lebel gave me when I was visiting him last summer.. I have worn it to Trondheim Pride and out clubbing. Now it is hanging on my bedroom wall next to my own top and boxer <3 I need to print out more SmackyGirl boxers and send a bunch down to them. I also found out that these guys went and won another award for Best European Website at the Cybersocket Awards 2019. Congrats to the all the guys <3
( My friend in Aussie Mister Robert sent me this as I am a big GOT fan.. Cercei is my favorite because without her GOT would just be another boring soap. )
I like to talk to people and people can come to talk to me about anything. I love a good and long chat about a lot of things. I am interested big in many subjects. My favorite subjects are about Music, Movies, Cats, or animals in general I love animals. I have a black cat myself that I post a lot about on my Facebook. I also have many years experience behind me working with professional trotter racing horses. I started working with horses when I was 13. I am also very interested in history and science. And food. When I published a post earlier on my blog bragging about me not watching porn I forgot to mention all the food “porn” sites I am a member of hahaha.. I love looking at a good dish 😉 who doesn`t haha..
(Oliver 2 years ago)
But some of you ask me about the people I interview. Some of you want to know real names, telephone numbers, address and answers to questions I can`t give without consent.. Sorry…. it is not to be mean but to protect the guys you follow right to privacy. You have to ask the guys and not me these questions.. It is pointless asking me anyway no matter who it is regarding friend or foe. I wont give you an answer to these questions. Sometimes I get tired of fans hassling me about it and wonder if I should tell the guys that some of you are poking about for their private information. But so far I haven`t decided to do that. But I do worry sometime that these people will eventually ask someone who won`t care as much as I do, and give out that information to someone who doesn`t have the right to it. I always tell models and others in this industry to be careful with giving out their real identity to strangers.
I interview models for my blog. Some of them I do know personally and have a relation with. But some I interview only for business purposes for my blog and I can`t no matter what give out models personal details to anyone if I have no permission to do so.. And there is no need to be angry and rude to me if I can`t give that to you! Some of you can hurt me with your comments too.. Its not fun being called this and that, just because I can`t give you a models real name. 🙁 Sometimes I don`t even know myself.. I`m just trying to make do with my own blog.
Other than that I really hope you like the interviews and the special stuff I can give you with the guys… I am just a girl who happened to stumble into the porn industry because someone she knew worked as a porn actor and gave her a blog 😛 You know the first 2 “models” I interviewed after Dakota Shine was his own boyfriend and my friend… And then there was an artist My Fatal Desire who was the second one I interviewed after Dakota Shine. . So I don`t just go in one direction with my posts this is not a pure porn blog. And it never will be. I used to have a blog before I got SmackyGirl.com of Jay. It was on a free platform called blogg.no those who search can still find it. And that`s where my first two interviews of Dakota Shine and Raven from My Fatal Desire was published. This blog is still there but I deleted all posts and have moved all the posts to this one after Jay gave me a proper blog. I also had a website before I knew Jay that was called SmackThat.com. Which is no longer existing. But it had a chat on it that many people used to use. Some of the earliest interviews on this blog are not appearing with the original date for when they were posted because they have been re added when the site was under construction 4-5 years ago.
Haha, a lot of people ask about the meaning of SmackyGirl or why people call me Smacky. To be honest it was in the days when MSN was popular and you created a nickname. I was listening to Akon`s song SmackThat with Eminem which was popular at the moment a long time ago, and that is where I got it from. No I am not a junkie, no I don`t shoot shit up my arms and never have never fucking will do. I don`t like bondage, because some think Smacky stands for some kinky fuckery.. Haha sorry to disappoint you I am just so boring vanilla. I was just listening to this song in 2006 and made the nickname for my MSN chat. And I have later used it around the internet, and it became my alter ego I guess like the models have. Jay adopted it when we met 10 years ago, and he used to call me Smacky or his SmackyLady .. I prefer people who know me or professionals call me by my birth name but English people have a hard time pronouncing it… The French guys and my friend in Serbia got it right away I was impressed. It was before we even met. I don`t mind if people want to call me by my name or Smacky its up to them. Usually when other people would call me Smacky you would hear Jay shouting “Fuck off that`s MY Smacky!” and he always pushed hard on the MY word. So for me it can be emotional to hear someone still call me Smacky because Smacky was Jay`s world..
Since the last time I posted I turned 37.. It wasn`t a big number to make a big party about. So I just had a quiet evening home with a mate who brought cheesecake and wine for me. I have also learned from my last check up at the hospital on 18th of January that I am as now today, 100% cancer free, and the little that was left on my lymphatics after the cervical cancer is now gone. So I wanted to spend my birthday with this special friend because I know I wouldn`t of been here with out him.. I have been just one big smile lately. Me being healthy and my French guys winning awards, honor and glory around the world.
So I can`t be anything but happy lately 😀 😀 😀
x Mz Smacky x
P.S thank you to everyone who wished me a happy birthday on the 28th and after and for my birthday gifts <3
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