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Et Intervju med en av Sorgenfri`s GateMagasin Selgere: Tom Andreas

March 20th, 2020 SmackyGirl

I den siste tiden etter korona utbruddet har mange land inkludert Norge valgt å sende hjem skoleelver, og arbeidsplasser har måttet gjøre det samme. Det eneste som er åpent i Norge for tiden er mat, noen få klær og sko butikker, også apotekene. Mest åpne butikker på kjøpesenter men i bygatene er det omtrent tomt for folk, og de fleste holder seg trygt hjemme under denne pandemien som herjer Norge. Restauranter, Frisører, Tattoo og Massage studioer har også måttet stenge dørene etter  å ha fått krav om det. Vi får beskjed om at vi skal ta vare på hverandre, men at vi skal ikke ta på hverandre. For å stoppe denne pandemien.. Har Regjeringen stengt grensene inn til Norge for utlendinger. Flyplassene og havnene har nå blitt stengt, og de blir nå overvåket av militæret. Ingen som ikke er i fra Norge slipper inn i dette landet. Over 1500 mennesker er smittet som følge av Korona viruset i Norge, og i skrivende stund har 7 mennesker måttet bøte med livet for dette viruset.


Trondheims Gågate i Nordre gate på en Torsdag formiddag er omtrent helt folketom. Og mange butikkvinduer er mørke. Bare noen større kjøpesenter har åpent. 

(Bilde. Men det lyste en flamme utenfor Vår Frue. Der kan du finne ekte varme og gode mennesker som er der for å hjelpe og prate med de som trenger det. Det er bålpanner å varme seg på, kaffe, te og noe å bite i. Her om dagen var det all sang, og det gikk i Jan Teigen og Elvis sanger. Frelsesarmeen deler også ut en pose mat til de som trenger det. )

Nå spøker det for mange arbeidsplasser og regjeringen har kommet med krisepakker til store og mellomstore bedrifter som nå sliter og har tapt enorme summer, fordi deres ansatte er permittert på ubestemt tid. En av de arbeidsplassene som også har valgt å stenge kontoret, er Gatemagasinet Sorgenfri her i Trondheim. Regjeringen har bevilget 100.000 milliarder til store og mellomstore bedrifter som nå sliter under korona utbruddet. Men jeg er redd selgere fra Sorgenfri faller utenom og kommer ikke til å se noe til disse pengene på sin konto. Det er derfor det nå er viktig å vise solidaritet og hjelpe de som er i lav terskel tilbud og få hverdagen til å gå rundt til de også. Jeg er dypt bekymret for de som har alvorlig rusmisbruk og psykiske lidelser, hvordan disse menneske skal klare seg igjennom denne vanskelige tiden. 

Jeg kjenner flere av de flotte menn og kvinner som jobber som selger for Gatemagasinet Sorgenfri, og har derfor valgt å intervjue en av deres selgere for å se hvordan det går med en av de i denne vanskelige tiden. Flere av oss er redd og bekymret for hvordan hverdagen til selgeren er nå etter at de står uten mulighet til å tjene penger til mat, medisiner og regninger som skal betales. 

Tom er en flott og ordentlig familie mann som forsørger sin familie igjennom jobben sin som Gatemagasin selger for Sorgenfri Trondheim.  Hos Tom har folk fremdeles en mulighet til å få kjøpe Mars utgaven av Sorgenfri bladet. Dere kan Vippse han, og han sender bladet i posten som kommer rett hjem til deg i postkassen din.

Om du ønsker å kjøpe Sorgenfri av Tom så kan jeg videreformidle kontakt mellom dere. 

 

Når startet du og hvorfor begynte du å jobbe som selger for Gatemagasinet Sorgenfri?
Jeg har jobbet for Gatemagasinet Sorgenfri siden 2011. Jeg begynte å selge Sorgenfri for å ha noe og gjøre, og finansiere min vanskelige økonomi. Jeg hadde rusproblemer og trengte relasjoner. 

Hvordan var livet ditt før du begynte som selger?
Det var veldig kaotisk. Mye kriminalitet og mye rus, var mye bostedsløs. Var mye i fengsel, vold og rus.

 Hvor lang tid satt du inne på de meste?
Jeg hadde en dom på vold, satte over 3 måneder i varetekt. Har sonet i Norge og Sverige, for vold og narkotika.

Hvordan har livet ditt endret seg i dag siden den gang?
Positivt,. Jeg har fått bedre økonomi, bosted og har familie på 4. Så rutiner er viktige, den ene går på skole, og andre skal begynne på barnehagen

Hva engasjerer deg?
 Rus-politikken engasjerer meg. Jeg er liberal, og mener folk må få bestemme selv. Ingen blir rusfrie på tvang, og jeg er veldig opptatt av at andre skal ha det bra. Jeg ønsker cannabis loven regulert og mer bruk på medisin,.

For tiden er Norge preget av Korona utbrudd og mange arbeidsplasser har valgt å stenge. Også Sorgenfri har stengt. Hva syns du om det?
Sorgenfri burde vært åpent så selgere kan få tak i magasiner. Det er veldig viktig på grunn av pengemangel. Nå blir det også tørke på rusmidler som vil få store konsekvenser.. Og vi frykter at mange liv kan bli tapt også innenfor rus. Dagens Sorgenfri har ikke stilt opp for selgerne. For her har dem kunne gjort mer!

Har du vært ute og prøvd å selge Gatemagasinet Sorgenfri etter kontoret stengte?
Nei det har jeg ikke på grunn av karantene. Jeg ble testet men testen var negativ. Men jeg har fortsatt karantenen. Regner med at den opphører fredag, da verdt 1 uke

Hvordan er det å være familiefar nå som du ikke får jobbet og ikke tjent noen penger til det man trenger i hverdagen?
Det og ikke få jobbe har konsekvenser, økonomien blir presset, men vi har det meste, det tyngste så langt er isoleringen, og ikke kan bidra og møte folk. Rutinene blir forskjøvet og har helt klart påvirket oss alle. Det og jobbe ha noe og gå til er veldig viktig.

Syns du det var riktig av Sorgenfri å stenge kontoret sist lørdag?
Jeg ønsker at Sorgenfri skal kunne tilby selgerne og være tilgjengelig på kontoret, samt finne en løsning for at selgerne skal kunne selge bladet slik ting er under korona! For mange er usikre, mange ruser seg mer, noen har for mye tanker. At Sorgenfri stenger helt er ikke ok

Har du nok penger så du klarer og forsørge deg og familien din?
Nei det har jeg ikke. Jeg tåler 14 dager. Men ikke en langvarig. Jeg har kontroll på mitt rus bruk og er ikke så utsatt som mine kolleger. Men jeg har jo hjulpet flere, så dem skal slippe å få kraftig abstinenser osv

Kan folk fortsatt få kjøpe Sorgenfri av deg og hvordan kan de det?
Jeg selger på Vipps og sender via post. jeg har fått penger på min private Vipps av faste kunder, som har tenkt på meg. Det er noen som er utrolig hyggelig. Sånn ellers i hverdagen når alt er som normalt .

I en normal hverdag. Hvor liker du best å stå å selge blader?
Jeg står mye på kjøpesenter. Som for eksempel på City Lade, City Syd, Melhus, Amfi Orkanger. Jeg står der det kan være folk. Det er trivelig og jeg tar jobben seriøst.

Hva er dine beste minner som Sorgenfri selger?
Når jeg var med Sorgenfri til INSP i Tyskland som selger og representant. Og jeg fikk møte de forskjellige gatemagasinene i hele verden. Det var fantastisk. Vi var i Tyskland i ei uke.

Fortell litt om den turen og hvorfor dere var i Tyskland?
En gang i året møtes alle medlemmene av INSP, for å dele kunnskap, utfordringer, og for å dele erfaringer. Fordi praksisen hos de ulike Magasinene verden rundt er veldig ulike. Det beste var og møte andre selgere. Man kunne se hvilke gatemagasin som virkelig jobbet for sine selgere!

Du jobber også noen ganger for Er=Lik Oslo. Fortell meg hvordan det er å jobbe som selger for Gatemagasinet i Oslo kontra Trondheim?
I Oslo er det mye mer fokus på selgerne. De ansatte står i døren og tar imot selgerne om morgenen å sjekker om alt er ok. Det viktig å bli møtt sett og respektert. Selger kontraktene i Er=Lik Oslo er 2 delt. Hvor selgerne forplikter seg til og representerer Er=Lik på en god måte. Og Er=Lik Oslo forplikter seg til og levere et produkt som selger godt, og som er der for selgerne

Har du noen gang hatt ubehagelige opplevelser med andre mennesker som du møter ute mens du selger gatemagasinet?
Ja dessverre, men jeg ønsker og holde på de positive opplevelsene. Der har jeg også mange, fått strikka klær til jr, og fått penger. En klem og hatt mange gode dialoger med eldre og unge iforhold til rus, og hvilket utfordringer livet ellers har

Hva liker du å gjøre på fritiden når du ikke er på jobb?
På fritiden bruker jeg og spille PS 4 være med familien, og går på ski, eller drar på aktiviteter som barna får ha det moro og utvikle seg


På spørsmålet om det er han som er Julenissen på Bildet svarer han.. ?
Nei, d va julenissen som poserte for reklame til meg

Hva handler bladet du selger om for deg?

Skaper mulighet, mulighet for og være selvberget.. Veldig viktig
 
 

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Olympos Ink visiting Trondheim in March

February 20th, 2020 SmackyGirl

Olympus Tattoo er et tattovertings studio i Tyrkia som har holdt på siden 2003. De er mange som jobber hos de. De har vunnet mange priser og fått skryt fra kunder som har blitt tatovert der. Nå kommer de til Trondheim og skal være her fra 1 til 18 mars..

For booking og spørsmål: 
Olympos Tattoo`s Facebook 

Jeg har snakket litt med de, fordi jeg kunne godt tenkt meg en tatovering til. Jeg holder på å lage en kul måte å ha dette smykket i bildet ovenfor som en tatovering rundt hånden min som et armbånd.. Når jeg så en jeg kjenner på facebook reklamere at Olympys tattoo kommer til Trondheim. Tenkte jeg at jeg skulle høre om de kunne tegne en kul tatovering av dette smykke for meg. 

Her er noen andre eksempler på hvilken tatoveringer dere kan få hos Olympus Ink. 

 

 

 

 

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French-Twinks in the Californian Desert

January 30th, 2020 SmackyGirl

Ready for a new adventures in the US 

Destination:

The GayVN AVN award show and shooting porn in the Californian Desert

French-Twinks on US tour with:
Chris Loan, Enzo Lemercier, Paul Delay, Justin Leroy and Director Antoine Lebel.

10 days ago Antoine Lebel and his assistant from French-Twinks studio took the models with them on a journey to the United States. They flew from the UK and landed in Los Angeles.

First stop was to join the AVN Awards show in Las Vegas. Some of the twinks couldn`t wait to be naughty until after they landed and got in to their hotel rooms.. 

I saw that both Enzo and Paul aimed to join the mile high club in a hot photo posted on social media.

Fun on the long flight from the UK to the West Coast of the US.


At the GayVN AVN award show 

A little pre Party first before the big event begins.

After landing safely in LA. It was time to dress up nicely and go to the AVN award show. Where French-Twinks movie Road Dick was nominated as Best Featured Movie.

The guys were nominated and excited to see what the night could bring. All guys was so stylishly dressed.

Check out Delays sexy suit for the evening. 


Mister Tall Dark and Handsome:
Paul Delay is ready for the night in a dark sexy and hot suit with matching cowboy boots. Of course because they are in Las Vegas and are shooting in the desert the next day.

Let`s go…

Everyone is having fun at the GayVN AVN Award show in Las Vegas. Here with some goodie bags they received. 

Paul Delay is a MEGA Spice Girls fan, I think he brings his sweater with him or something with Spice Girls everywhere he goes.


Enzo Lemercier meting with other guests at the show.

Here with Daniel Hausser.


 The award went to Helix Studio. Which Antoine took as good sport and was happy for the winners. He has cooperated with Helix Studios before on an earlier visit to the states.

Congratulations to Helix Studios.


Congratulations to Chris Loan who is currently working for CookyBoys, whom also won awards.


The guys looking fantastic gathered together on the red carpet during the GayVN AVN award show in Las Vegas

 

Happy to have been nominee for Best Featured Movie @GayVN Awards, my heart started to beat faster seeing our Movie “US Road Dick” on screen… Finally the award goes to @HelixStudios and that’s well desserved! Congrats guys @AlexRomanDGA @KeithHelix @KyleRossXXX @MaxCarterXXX… pic.twitter.com/iVCKYu55cl

— FrenchTwinks Studios (@FTwinks) January 21, 2020

 

A little clip from the GayVN AVN award show. Where French-Twinks movie Road Dick was nominated .


Shooting in the Californian desert

The next morning, the guys had to get up early and get ready to go to the desert for filming a new scene.


Good Morning LA.
The guys are up early, dressed in their new GayVN hoodies, listening closely while Antoine gives a brief of what sexy stuff they are doing in the desert.

Ambiance sur la route du tournage avec @FTwinks @ChagallFrancois @PaulDelayX @enzo_lemercier @Thomas_Gump 😂😂😂 pic.twitter.com/dB6xaHQvSA

— Justin Leroy (@JustinLeroyFT) January 23, 2020

Driving like Americans do. The guys are singing in the car..

Renting 2 sexy beasts to take them to the desert 


The guys rented some fancy fast cars and drove off to the desert to make some hot scenes. 

Who do you think drove the Corvet and the Mustang? 


Paul Delay in action in the hot Western Desert


The beautiful scenery of the California Desert, where the guys are working at the moment.


Paul Delay and Enzo Lemercier checking out the beautiful scenery.


Boys will always be boys. Having a wee in the desert.


After shooting in the steaming hot desert, they guys went for some well deserved drinks.


And, discovering the gay bars in Palm Springs.


This hot and steamy trip will be available to watch soon: 

www.French-Twinks.com

French-Twinks 
https://twitter.com/FTwinks

Paul Delay
https://twitter.com/PaulDelayX

Enzo Lemercier
https://twitter.com/enzo_lemercier

Chris Loan
https://twitter.com/Chris_LoanXXX

Justin Leroy
https://twitter.com/JustinLeroyFT


Ps: Check out who is interviewed in the latest Garcon magazine. 


 

x Mz Smacky x

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Autumn Thoughts

October 5th, 2019 SmackyGirl

It has been like forever since I posted anything in here. I have been pretty busy lately trying to find a new home for me and Oliver. Since the apartment I was living in, was in a house that was going to be sold, I had to find a new place to live in. And I finally did for about a month ago. So then I started shortly after moving out of my old apartment and into my new one in the middle of last month, September. I still live in the same area, I have just moved to the other side of the hill from where I used to live before.. This apartment is far smaller than the one I moved from. But it has all inclusive with everything I need in the kitchen, dishwasher, fridge with a freezer, stove and washing machine, and it comes with free WiFi, power and heating.. It is in a quiet suburban neighborhood, but not too far from shops and public transport.  I like it here for now, and I have a lot of friends nearby.. But I do wish I had a little bit bigger apartment than this. So I think I am still going to be looking for a little bit bigger place. But I want to take my time to find just the right one that is perfect for me and my catman.

I am settled into my new home now and I am slowly starting to catch up on what everyone has been up to that I have missed out on lately.. So I found out that my guys in France are nominated for the, what I think it is called, Pink X Gay Video Awards. They were also nominated for awards from them before. And they won a few of the categories they were nominated in from there last year. This year they are again nominated in many categories and Antoine Lebel the Director of The French-Twinks Studios is nominated in the category Best Director 2019. I went on the site to vote for Antoine as Best Director 2019 and, discovered that the scenes that we did in Nice together last summer with the guys have received many nominations and mentions too. And that also one of the main star actors who starred in that scenes, Paul Delay is also nominated for Best Pornstar 2019. 

I followed the French-Twinks Studio for 4 days making Sea, Sex and Sun, and it is was awesome to find out how many nominations and mentions that scene had got.  And 2 other main actors who starred in it as well, are also nominated in different categories. Also many other known faces from the French-Twinks Studios are nominated and might be one of the lucky ones to win an award from the Pink X Gay Video Awards. The results of who wins happens on the 26 th of October, from what I could gather on the site. So I have left my votes, and now I am keeping my fingers crossed for them and hope that some of my readers will do as me and vote for them too. I will be very Merci thank you, takk and muchas gracias if you all did the same. Here is the link to do that:

https://www.pinkxgayvideoawards.com/en/vote-en/ 

 

 

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The Twinks at French-Twinks Studio are cruising around Nice

July 20th, 2019 SmackyGirl

As soon as the sun comes out and the temperatures rises, all the sexy guys come outside to play.
From what I can see the cute twinks at French-Twinks Studios are out cruising around Nice. And; in from what I can see a sexy dark cabriolet … 

They just shared a photo on their twitter of the guys having fun and cruising around Nice in France. Some good things will come out of this.. Check out more on their twitter… 

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New Music from DJ Dark Intensity – Be Okey

July 20th, 2019 SmackyGirl

For it to be proper I believe you need to have some good music to listen to through the summer. And enjoy and relax to.. Here is the latest remix and song from DJ Dark Intensity – Be Okey.

It will make you dance or feel relaxed..

Happy Summer Times 

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Blogging on a Hot and Slow Summer Day in July 2019

July 20th, 2019 SmackyGirl

I think blogging is becoming a little out of fashion at the moment. I spend more time on social media than I do looking after this site anymore. I feel that You get to interact closer with your audience and friends on social media then what WordPress can offer at the moment. But a blog is better and good to have for longer things you have on your minds and want to write down. But even these post I publish on here get shorter. Micro-blogging is growing on me. On twitter and Facebook I can be with my followers and friend instantly and take them with me out in the world all day through my iPhone. . But sometimes I like having this too, to put down my words on something deeper and longer. 

I have been enjoying a chill summer at home, but I had to rearrange and chancel all my holiday plans for this summer to find another apartment to live in, because this house is being sold. So it has been a little quiet, and unusually for me not to go on a summer holiday this year. I have never been home longer. But it is nice thought I am just chilling with good friends and music at home and hoping I wil find a new place to live before January 2020.. 

My cat has had a infected wound behind his ear and he didn`t stop itching, so I had to take him to the veterinarian at AniCura, Trondheim where he was treated and prescribed medicine, he is going to be on twice a day, for 10 days. He also has to wear a collar a few times a day.. Until it is healed.. My poor boy I hope he will be okey.. And thank you to the best ladies at Anicura Heimdal for seeing my baby. 

I am going to be home looking after my cat all this Saturday evening haha and I just wanted to drop by and wish everyone a good and peaceful summer holiday .. 

 

Drop me a message about anything and follow me on twitter or facebook..

Happy Summer Times everyone

x Mz Smacky x

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OSLO PRIDE 2019; The Norwegian Police Apologizes to all LGTBQ People

June 14th, 2019 SmackyGirl

At the main Police station in Oslo today on the 14th of June 2019, when Oslo Pride in Norway begins, the Norwegian police authorities had called in to a big press conference. All the flags that was hoisted at the main police station in Oslo, The capitol of Norway today, was waving in the Rainbow colours. 

(Picture and news article source: Kim Friele came out as gay 60 years ago, that meant sickness, shame and punishment …) and Nrk.no -PolitietBerHomofileOmUnnskyldningForUrettogTrakasering

In a statement to the public I read yesterday, the police in Norway had this to say to the people; 

The police apologize for gay and harassment against gays. The Police acknowledges that mistakes have been made against gays throughout history. In a press release, they apologize for injustice and harassment, and for having created fear.

“The police have since the end of April this year planned a gathering for police officers, police students and invited guests, where we want to apologize to gay people for the injustice and harassment many were subjected to and for the fear police were creating and building. up below,” – the police writes in a press release Wednesday.”

I have just finished watching the whole press conference twice with Kim Friele because it was very good and learning. I hope someone can get his speech and put on subtitles for other languages to hear his words. Currently it is just in Norwegian.

I am so glad that the Norwegian police came and said sorry to the LGTBQ people,, and in the grand way they did. It was not a day too late ??..

But.. I always have a but.. 

I hope it also sends a signal that there are other that also own these people an apology.

I would like to ask the Church and the health care system too, to also apologize to the treatment you have given these people for hundreds of years. As long as there was people on this planet there have been people who are LGTB or Questioning things.

The state and government and those who made the laws, and have been judge&jury have also convicted these people to horrible destinies for thousands of years. People have been thrown out on the street and been called the “weird, dangerous and mental” ones by the people. Many have had to live and feed of the street and been told they are insane and a sin and shame for the world. Artists, painters, poets, writers and actors and intelligent people have ended their lives in horrible ways for hundreds and thousands of years and told they where sick and mentally disturbed, that homosexuality was perverse and a disease you could catch. People have been medicated, lobotomized and been experimental animals to priests, doctors and psychologists who said they were ill but thought it could be healed..


Some people are just born this ways, that is the way life is. And we can love who ever we want no matter what gender they have, or who we want to be. The most important thing to do is, to be kind to people and not judge. No one is going to tell me I am sick and disturbed if I want to be in love with man or a lady. I am my own person with my own heart and feelings. Nothing has ever caused so much pain as religion and the church has. And they own LGTBQ people an apology too. And a acceptance, that to love is a human right no one can take from you.

I want to wish everyone a Happy Oslo Pride #HotSpotToGoNOW

 

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Dear all Ladies working in the Porn or Sex Industry

June 3rd, 2019 SmackyGirl

When I see how many of you ladies who work as a porn actresses in porn movies are almost never protected in your job against deadly viruses, it worries me about what the future holds for these girls and women. It makes me angry to see studios don`t give a fuck about people`s health and life.  I am sorry I am not known for being afraid of speaking my mind out there. If I have offended anyone so far with this post, have a seat I`m not done talking yet.. 

I would like to say something to all you ignorant idiots and money greedy bastards that runs and owns all these studios today. Many or them doesn`t seem to give a flying fuck about the lives and health of all these women working for them. I don`t like that job moral where the one part is laughing all the way too the bank with the money they have earned by playing with human lives.. You girls probably protect yourself with some sort of birth control pills, plasters or other alternatives you prefer to stop unwanted pregnancy.  But it makes me so frustrated when I see all the men that work with these girls have absolutely no intention to put a condom on their penis. You who are women who work in the sex and porn industry have many reasons to be worried about your future health if you keep that lifestyle up, if you think it is worth putting your life on the line like that? 

I think it is about time that these ladies who are working for a bareback studio, hear about what danger you are getting yourselves in to by having sex with multiple sexual partners unprotected.

Using condoms during sex offers some protection against HPV, but it cannot always prevent infection because the virus is also spread through skin-to-skin contact of the wider genital area.

WHAT IS THE HPV VIRUS?:

Human papillomavirus (HPV) causes the majority of cervical cancer cases. (Smoking is the 2nd) The HPV vaccine successfully prevents HPV. Infection with some types of HPV is the greatest risk factor for cervical cancer, Young women who are still able to get this vaccine should get one imminently. Parents who have daughters should all take their daughters to get the vaccine to prevent both Cervical cancer and breast cancer. Women who have sex with men who have many other sexual partners, or women who have many sexual partners have a greater risk. Many men also carry the HPV virus naturally within them. Which can lead to Cervical cancer in women later in life. 

What causes Cervical cancer?

Almost all cases of cervical cancer are caused by HPV. HPV is a very common virus that can be passed on through any type of sexual contact with a man or a woman.

SYMPTOMS AND SIGNS

This type of cancer has often no symptoms before it reaches a later and more dangerous stage. There are 4 stages. 1 and 2 are moderate. Stage 3 and 4 is deadly. It is important for all women go see your gynecologists every 3rd year to take a pap test. The test takes only 5 minutes and it does not hurt. During a cervical screening, a small sample of cells is taken from the cervix and checked under a microscope for abnormalities.

If you have any symptoms like this you should go consult a doctor ASAP:   

Bleeding between periods

Bleeding after sexual intercourse

Bleeding in post-menopausal women

Discomfort during sexual intercourse

Vaginal discharge with a strong odor

Vaginal discharge tinged with blood

Pelvic pain


If you have got Cervical cancer it will change everything and it can ruin your life forever. In many cases women die from this type of cancer because they didn`t test themselves. Many young women in their early 20`s, who had their whole lives a head of them, have died shortly after being diagnosed with this horrible disease. 

  • If you have radiotherapy treatment for Cervical Cancer,  you will never be able to have children again.
    And you will also loose all your hair down there and it will never come back.
  • You will also be put in to an early menopause in less than 24 hours after your radiotherapy has started on the inside. 
  • You will loose your PMS completely.
  • You might have to start chemotherapy at the same time also. Depending on how much chemo you will need to have to beat the cancer.

You might also loose all your hair on the head, and everywhere else too on your body. Such as eyebrows and eyelashes can fall off too. With chemotherapy the hair grows back out again after you have finished. But the hair the radiotherapy laser touches, will never grow back out again.. This is not a disease that I would wish upon any women to be affected by. You will feel sick and awful so many times, and the medicine you get against nausea during chemo does not always work on all. It did on me I am thankful for that. But it did not work at all on that poor young woman who was getting treatment at the same time as I did when I was sick. 

I have seen people look more dead than alive laying at the hospital, while they are under treatment for cancer. I heard a person from another room one evening when I was staying at the hospital. The person was crying out begged to just let them die in peace instead of having to feel awful from Chemotherapy and radiotherapy every day. You can get so sick that you are locked to your bed the whole time. Having cancer is going to affect your family and close friends, sometimes they need someone to talk to when learning that someone they love and care about have become seriously ill. Cancer affects everyone around you that you are close to because people realizes that someone they care about might or might not make it.. 

  • The number of deaths to this disease is high and increasing ..
    World Wide Cervical Cancer affects 490.000 new women every year. with more than 270.000 deaths.
  • It is estimated that in 2010 – 12.200 woman will be diagnosed with Cervical Cancer in the United states and 4200 will die.
  • In Norway over 300 women are diagnosed with Cervical cancer each year, around 70 of these die. ( The population in Norway: 5 million people. ) 

Do you think these studios will visit you at the hospital and care for you, if you become sick with Cervical cancer? Do you think they will offer to help you financially with all the new expenses you will have now for e.g; transport, hospital, and medical expenses you are going to get now on top of the regular bills you have to pay too, rent, food, electric, phone bill, internet etc. Having cervical cancer is an expensive type of cancer you will need a lot of sanitary and hygienic products, you can forget wearing any plain white trousers for some time. Your clothes such as underwear and trousers, bed sheets, towels and so on will need to be washed or thrown because there will be a mess and your bed need to be changed every day if you are on chemo. This disease continues to be a mess also, after you have beat it ..  

You will possible have your sex life destroyed for life and be in a lot of pain if you try to make love with your partner. If you don`t have a partner the hospital will tell you what you need to keep your own vagina open. Other wise it will close after you have had the radiotherapy started to laser the inside of your belly.. This will be the most hard on your belly. I sat with tears in my eyes trying to pee. It was so painful it felt like needles trying to come out. This is where women go into instant menopause no matter how young you are. I am 36 and I am in the middle of it now hoping it is going to finish soon. Because it is taking so long I am in my 2nd year, but I want to be done with this strange time now. You will not get your menopause symptoms naturally and graceful over the years like most women do. You will have everything thrown at you in 24 hours on full power.  You also might have to operate if you have a tumor and the tumor is of that size that it has to be taken out by a surgeon if the radiotherapy doesn`t shrink it. That is a very big operation, if they decide to take out everything. You will be bond to your bed for weeks not allowed to move or do any heavy activities or lift heavy things. Because it takes time to heal from a operation like that. So you will have to spend the first days in a bed after a operation like that.

I have beat my cancer, but I am struggling with late effects from chemo and radiotherapy 

  • My back is not doing so good, it is actually almost broken. My bone marrow could not handle any more Chemotherapy. So before I needed a donor they took me off it.  Exercise makes me feel much better.
  • I don`t talk the same way I did before, I forget what simple things are named. When I am trying to speak some words are difficult to say out right and it sounds like I have started studding too sometimes. 
  • Your belly will hurt so much some days specially in the morning to me.
  • I am feeling like a 90 year old lady sometimes. I keep forgetting where I have left my keys, phone, lighters, purse and other important things like that I need.
  • It is sticking a intense itching in my ears every now and then, and feel like my hearing has gone down a little. Sometimes I can`t hear what people are saying if there is music, traffic in the background or something like that..   
  • My skin is dry and look older and it often gets very irritated after the radiotherapy. I get sunburned very easily now, if I am in the sunlight for too long. I have also found a few grey hair after chemo 🙁 
  • I get very exhausted sometimes just by tidying up my home. I almost have a nap every day, sometimes I need two because the day can be so long for me and sometimes now.
  • I am in menopause and it is not nice to go through that face. You guys should know that women don`t have it easy when that period is over us. But I am trying to cope and not be a grumpy SmackyGirl. But I have had a few emotional explosions come out of the blue. Like that day where I started crying because the hairbrush got stuck in my hair… Haha it doesn`t take so much some days.. Before I never cried at sad or good things that I saw on TV, in a movie or something. But now I can`t watch anything sad or upsetting at the moment. Sometimes I feel a lump in my throat and tears coming down my cheek when I am watching something sad or happy when I am around visiting friends, it is so embarrassing because it can`t be controlled sometimes suddenly I`m sitting there crying loads over sad things I see on TV. 

I am hoping that one day the late effects and the menopause will let go soon, and that I can manage to keep the cancer away. Because I don`t know what happens if it comes back if my bone marrow can handle any more chemotherapy.  If not..,,, I hope I don`t because I might need to look for a bone marrow donor, my family is not that big …

 

I did not have the HPV virus. I have smoked since I was 13 and my eating habits was a lot more different before than what it is now. I am almost down to being a vegetarian. If I smell food cooking I sometimes feel sick and don`t want it. Cold food such as a lot of fruit, nuts and yogurts, cereals and raisins is what I mostly live on now compared to what I did before it was too much unhealthy food. It is important to cut down on red met, junk food and processed food it is not good for us to eat so much meat and cooked food. I am becoming more and more careful with what I eat. I am out working out almost everyday.. But the smoking I haven`t managed to put away fully yet. So I getting a lot of moaning from my doctors every time I have my next check up.. 

On the 11th and the 12th I go to the hospital to have my downstairs repaired. The cancer is gone, but the radiotherapy has left me broken and not functioning.. I don`t know if this will help and I probably won`t talk about that on here either if it does or not. But I am keeping my fingers crossed hoping that maybe I can live as a normal woman again.. 

All you women out there need to take Cervical cancer serious in this world today. The number of women who get diagnosed with this type of cancer are often very young girls in their early twenties only.. I have read somewhere that many girls think it is embarrassing asking the guy if he has a condom or suggest that they should put a condom on before sex. 

GIRLS THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON TO BE SCARED TO ASK YOUR DUDES TO PUT A CONDOM ON!

If he says he dosen`t have one, tell him to be an responsible grown up man and go buy one.

“If he wants your sugar
He better run and get the rubber” 

If a guy really cares about you he will respect your wishes. 
And if he doesn`t, tell him,

Thank you! Next..

xxx
x Mz Smacky x
 
  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Baptiste Garcia, Repose en paix bel ange

May 12th, 2019 SmackyGirl

I woke up to a quiet and peaceful Sunday that just turned out to be a day of grief.. Through Max Riviera I just found out that Baptiste Garcia has passed away.. Today I stand with the French-Twinks Studio and their fans in grief over losing a colleague, friend or a idol ..

I am so sad to hear that Baptiste Garcia has passed away. You were too young to go yet. You will be missed by so many including me and thousands of fans. Thank you for letting me get to know you and work with you. You were a great and kind person always. Rest in Peace and my deepest condolences and sympathies to his family, friends, colleagues and fans

Light a candle for Baptiste today 

x Mz Smacky x 

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